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Thursday, February 9, 2012

Why We Must Not Judge Others

One of the things that really bothers me about Christians is the fact that they all judge one another.  There is a very dear friend of mine here at Capital who I would classify as a fundamentalist.  This person always seems to be judging me whenever I bring up a religious topic to talk about.  He has this 'holier-than-thou' complex about him.  I visited a Buddhist temple a few months ago for a religion class, and he asked me why I went there instead of a church of a different denomination.  I responded by saying I wanted to experience another faith.

For example, whenever I bring up the issue of homosexuality in the church, he always gets very offensive and condemns those who are homosexual.  It bothers me when people condemn homosexuals because while Christians claim that homosexuality is a choice, science suggests otherwise.  As we all know, science is basically the explanation of how the world works.  I am reminded about a paper I did in Psychology about a year and a half ago.  Several professors here had a debate and Q&A session about homosexuality.  It was rather fascinating.  Here is the a review of the session below.




Jesse Harmon
Psych 110
Dr. Torello
November 5, 2010
The Biology of Homosexuality
            Homosexuality is, according to the Oxford Dictionary, “sexually attracted to people of one's own sex.”  The panel held at the Capital University Bridge of Learning lecture hall on November 4, 2010 at 7:30pm.  The moderator that night was a Capital University senior seeking a religion major, with Dr. Torello, Dr. Broh, and Dr. Anderson sitting on the panel.  Dr. Torello has a doctorate degree in biological psychology from The Ohio State University.  Dr. Broh has a Ph.D in sociology from The Ohio State University.  Dr. Anderson has a Ph.D in Zoology from Miami University.  This paper is a summery of what happened during the debate.
            The first question asked to the panel was if there were any differences between the brains of a homosexual man and a heterosexual man.  Dr. Torello responded that the hypothalamus of the brain is responsible for sexual behavior.  Simon LeVay, a neuroscientist, documented that the hypothalamus of a homosexual man resembles that of a heterosexual woman.  However, replications of LeVay’s studies failed to conclude this hypothesis.  LeVay again conducted this experiment, claiming that his hypothesis is correct, even though subsequent studies proved him wrong.  Years later, LeVay ‘came out of the closet’ as a homosexual himself, (which may or may not conclude that he made up his findings).   Other findings in the animal kingdom have found that 10% of male rams have hypothalamuses that are similar to those of female rams. 
            Heredity was the next question in the discussion.  Dr. Anderson stated that a 1993 study concluded that a ‘gay gene’ has been found.  However, after reviewing and attempting to reproduce the study in 1999, other scientists proved this theory false.  There is no connection between the X-Chromosome that had looked different in homosexual males and sexual orientation.  However, the scientists in the 1999 study were unsure about how the original study was conducted, because families were excluded for various reasons such as the father being a homosexual himself.  The 1999 study was a much larger study, having about 450 participants, while the 1993 study had a lot less.
            Is a person born into his or her sexual preference, and how does one’s development express his or her sexual orientation?  Dr. Broh responded that studies cannot be replicated, and that scientist can only make assumptions.  Dr. Torello went on to explain that there is no ‘light switch’ effect, where someone can be completely homosexual or completely heterosexual; instead, there is a large spectrum, which can in fact be measured using the Kinsey Scale.  Are homosexuals born the way they are?  Dr. Torello seemed to infer that people could be born homosexual.  He mentioned a study done on lab rats.  A mother rat was injected with testosterone into her uterus, much more than naturally produced.  When the pups were born, their gender was recorded.  When the pups sexually matured, the female rats sometimes attempted to mate with other female rats.  When a mother rat was injected with estrogen, the male pups that were sexually mature attempted, in their own unique way, to mount other male rats.  This possibly concludes that the amounts of testosterone or estrogen in someone could affect their sexuality preference.
            Dr. Anderson mentioned that in the first part of the 20th century, scientists considered homosexuality as being a mental disorder.  In the 1970s, however, this idea was thrown out.  There used to be many ‘gay fixing’ clinics around the United States, but since the seventies, the amount has significantly dropped.
            Dr. Anderson also mentioned a study that concluded that if a mother has multiple male children, the probability that the younger male child will be homosexual goes up a third of a percent; meaning that there is a higher chance the ‘baby brother’ of the family will be homosexual than the oldest male child.  This may have to do with the fact that younger sons tend to weigh less than their older siblings.   According to the study, 1/7 of homosexual men in North America have an older brother.  This study does not conclude any correlation between homosexuality and if that male had an older sister.  This theory hasn’t been tested since.
            A question from a young man in the audience was brought up.  Does a father figure have any influence on the chance someone is homosexual?  Dr. Broh took this question.  She said there was no consistent evidence that a father figure has anything to do with a child being homosexual.  Dr. Anderson stated, however, that the age of the mother could determine if the child is homosexual or not.  The younger the mother, the more likely the child could be homosexual.   A mother is more likely to have maternal stress if she is having her first child, then she is if she’s having her third.  This maternal stress might altar the natal environment that the baby is in.  Dr. Torello mentioned a study done by John Money, at John Hopkins University, that homosexual males act the way they do because they have lower testosterone levels in their bodies.  Money received funds for his experiment where he injected self-described homosexual males with testosterone, thinking that he might be able to change their sexual orientation.  However, the testosterone had a surprising effect; instead of changing the subjects’ sexual orientation, the testosterone instead made them more attracted to the same gender.  Dr. Broh also agreed with the other two panelists when she stated that hormone levels vary in every human.  Some males may have higher estrogen levels than other males, and some females may have higher testosterone levels than other females.
            An audience member brought up a surprising question.  Could the image of homosexuality be changed?  Dr. Broh rhetorically asked the audience member what he considered homosexuality.  Is the image based on appearance, behavior, sexual preference, or some other variable?  The identity of someone cannot be change.  Calling someone homosexual is a very vague description, according to Dr. Broh.  This question shocked me as well as a few other audience members because it seemed to have nothing to do with what this forum was about.
            Another unexpected question came from an audience member.  This question pertained to a statistic that Dr. Torello mentioned earlier in the discussion.  Dr. Torello mentioned that on average, ten-year-old boys know whom they are going to be attracted to later in life.  This audience member questioned Dr. Torello’s statement by saying that at the age of four, he was going to like females.  Low chatter began around the room as Dr. Torello attempted to clarify what he stated earlier, that on average, boys at the age of ten know whom they are going to be attracted to.
            The discussion went another route.  What is the home life versus the social impact on sexuality?  Dr. Broh said that children being raised in a single parent home, (single mothers or single fathers), has NO correlation to the outcome of a child’s sexual attractions.  Instead, if homosexual parents raise a child, there is a slight increase in the probability that the child will be homosexual, compared to a child being raised by a heterosexual family.  She concluded that the child who is raised by the homosexual family would have a larger range of choices in sexuality compared to a child raised by a heterosexual family. However, she stated that this has nothing to do with sexual orientation. 
            Could homosexuals deny their own sexuality? Dr. Torello said it’s possible.  Could someone be one hundred percent gay, or one hundred percent straight?  Again, the panel states that there is a spectrum on sexuality.  If someone was one hundred percent gay, they would most likely detest members of the opposite gender.
            What could be done to combat campus negativity toward homosexuality?  The panel discussed that with information collected, and if in fact an answer could be found about biology having anything to do with homosexuality, it could be used to help with the equal rights movement, and with anti-discrimination classes. 
             A question was brought up about ‘fixing’ homosexuality.  Dr. Torello quickly stated that homosexuality, “[is] not broken.”  A better question would have been, “If someone was homosexual, and they didn’t want to be homosexual, is there a way to ‘change’ them to be heterosexual?”
            There has been rigorous testing on male homosexuals, but not so much on female homosexuals.  The behavior of males tends to be more scrutinized than the behavior of females.  If two females hug, society sees it as perfectly normal.  However, if two males hug, some parts of society see it as being abnormal, wrong, or strange.  Dr. Torello asked the audience, if two females can hug, why can’t two males?
            The final thoughts on the three panelists summed everything up. Dr. Anderson stated that there are a lot of hypotheses and that a lot of testing still needs to be done.  Dr. Broh stated that sexuality is fixed at a certain point, and that nature versus nurture is a battle that needs to be solved.  The ‘way they are’ and ‘who they are’ is more important about ‘how they got there.’  Dr. Torello states, what does it matter?  What does it matter if we’re Italian, black, white, Jewish, or homosexual?  Some say that if we pray hard enough, our sexuality would change.  Dr. Torello states that God can’t change us. 
            A lot of work still could be done on the biological effects on homosexuality.  Why? There are much bigger issues to worry about such as cancer, diabetes, and other diseases that affect peoples’ lives much more tremendously than a sexual orientation.  In conclusion, sexuality is probably biological, but we still don’t know.  Will we ever figure it out?  Maybe, but maybe not.



I am reminded of several verses from the Bible.

Matthew 7:1, "Do not judge, or you too will be judged."  

Luke 6:37, "Do not judge, and you will not be judged.  Do not condemn, and you will not be condemned.  Forgive, and you will be forgiven."  

I have a serious problem with bullying, not only in school, but in society.  Read this article.  This is unacceptable.  As someone who has attempted suicide in the past, I find this appalling.  As mentioned in the article, for 13 year old Brittany, 7th grade was absolute hell.  It was also a nasty time for me.  I heard nothing but teasing from the kids in my class not only toward me, but toward other students.  I still have trouble respecting some of my classmates, which is probably why I don't contact them very much.  The things they said were just awful, and Logan-Hocking Middle School did nothing about it.

But I forgive them.  I've come to the conclusion that what I've experience exasperated my mental illness to this day.  I had a really thin skin, but it's grown thicker.  I'm now able to take that kind of thing, but it still bothers me.

John 8:7, "When they kept on questioning [Jesus], he straightened up and said to them, 'if any one of you is without sin, let him be the first to throw a stone at her."

I find it appalling that people within the church are condemning homosexuality, saying it's a sin.  The act of homosexuality is a sin.  We are ALL sinners.  EVERY SINGLE ONE OF US is a sinner.

Romans 14:10, "You, then, why do you judge your brother?  Or why do you look down on your brother?  For we will all stand before God's judgement seat.

As my friends know, I believe divorce to be a terrible thing, worse than the act of homosexuality.  Divorce splits apart families.  Of course there are some obviously good excuses to get divorced, such as spousal abuse, but if two people are getting divorced just to get divorced, that's not right. Divorce is not traditional family values.


The word abomination that's used in the Bible can be translated from many different words.  It does not convey the same meaning as we see it today.  Today, we see the definition of abomination as something that should be banned.  However, back in the day, abomination was seen as something just simply disliked.

1 Corinthians 4:5, "Therefore judge nothing before the appointed time; wait till the Lord comes. He will bring to light what is hidden in darkness and will expose the motives of men's hearts. At that time each will receive his praise from God."

It's not our job here on earth to judge others.  It's the Almighty God's job.  I have sinned.  I will be judged.  I have this immense fear that I will not be good enough to enter heaven because of my sins.

You may say that what I say here is blasphemy.  Go ahead.  Kick me out of the church.  I double-dog dare you.

It's what I believe.  Is the act of homosexuality a sin? Yes.  Is the homosexual person a sinner? Yes, but I'm a sinner, and you are a sinner as well.  Is homosexuality a sin?  No.

To all my homosexual friends, I love you all.  You are all very special to me.  Everyone is special to me.  May God grant you peace in your lives and be safe on your quests to find true love.


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